Those of you who know me well know that it hasn't always been an easy road. This journey has had plenty of ups, downs, and even some u-turns. I've been on more first dates than I can even count and have some pretty funny stories to tell. I've met some really cool guys and some I'd rather forget about. I'm not going to lie, dating can be exhausting!
Years ago after a not so great first date I remember a co-worker encourage me with this, she said, "Don't worry, he was just another frog. Sometimes you need to kiss many frogs before you find your prince."
As silly as that sounded it was something that has stuck with me through the years. I've used that thought to assure myself that every frog I went out with brought me one date closer to meeting my prince. There were definitely moments of frustration as I went on my search and times when I was convinced that he simply did not exist and I would be single forever. The awesome thing about those days that seemed lonely, hopeless, and frustrating is that they drew me closer to the Lord. It was during those times that I was able to place my focus on Him and reestablish my priorities. It was then that I finally realized that even if I didn't get what I wanted and things didn't go my way that He is still good and I am still blessed.
As silly as that sounded it was something that has stuck with me through the years. I've used that thought to assure myself that every frog I went out with brought me one date closer to meeting my prince. There were definitely moments of frustration as I went on my search and times when I was convinced that he simply did not exist and I would be single forever. The awesome thing about those days that seemed lonely, hopeless, and frustrating is that they drew me closer to the Lord. It was during those times that I was able to place my focus on Him and reestablish my priorities. It was then that I finally realized that even if I didn't get what I wanted and things didn't go my way that He is still good and I am still blessed.
Many years of persistent prayer, not only from me but also from many close friends and family, and God finally answered. He did so by sending me a Godly man who loves his family, works hard, and treats me like a queen. He sent me a man that is perfect for me and all of the years leading up to now helped me become the perfect women for him. I couldn't have created a better man for myself if I tried.
Lesson learned: God's ways are higher than ours and His timing is always spot on. Even when things don't make sense trust that God know exactly what He is doing. Stay faithful in prayer and know that if it is God's will then it will happen when it is supposed to.
"Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer." ~ Romans 12:12
Here's to no more frog kissing!